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What do you think someone's intentions are when they say...

"Your kids will be ward of the state until your divorce is final." And this was from someone in my family.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:47 AM on Jan. 24, 2013 in General Parenting

Answers (19)
  • They're talking out of their ass
    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 10:48 AM on Jan. 24, 2013

  • I don't know since I have no clue what "board of the state" is.
    kmath

    Answer by kmath at 10:48 AM on Jan. 24, 2013

  • ward
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:49 AM on Jan. 24, 2013

  • How is someone a "board of the state"? Do you mean "ward of the state"? Which is what happens when children are taken away from their parents?
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 10:49 AM on Jan. 24, 2013

  • It means they will be in the care of the state aka foster system.
    funlovinlady

    Answer by funlovinlady at 10:50 AM on Jan. 24, 2013

  • Unless they have the authority to take them away from you, I'd tell them to piss off! (only not quite so nicely!)

    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 10:54 AM on Jan. 24, 2013

  • They're still talking out their asses. Divorce doesn't mean the kids become wards of the state, until the divorce is finalized even with a custody dispute. So unless there are some underlying circumstances like both parents in jail or physical/substance abusers then it's just bullshit.
    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 10:55 AM on Jan. 24, 2013

  • Unless this person's name is signed on official documents, stating their authority to say such, i'd say their intentions were to piss off the receiver.
    dullscissors

    Answer by dullscissors at 10:56 AM on Jan. 24, 2013

  • Was this a threat to make you not get a divorce? Unless they are already out of the home, they are just being nasty.
    jerseydiva

    Answer by jerseydiva at 10:56 AM on Jan. 24, 2013

  • ive never heard of a normal divorce forcing kids in the system. there would have to be some underlying reason for kids to be taken away, and divorce doesnt cut it.

    id say whoever told you that is stupid, and maybe they think saying something like that will scare you from getting a divorce?
    okmanders

    Answer by okmanders at 10:57 AM on Jan. 24, 2013

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