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I have 2 sons Jack & Jason that are not married and they live with their girlfriends. Both girl friends are pregnant and due in May. I am not close with either girlfriend but I was planning on throwing a babyshower for Jason's girl friend and not Jack's. I wasn't very happy when Jack started dating her because she is older than him and she already has 2 children and is divorced. Jack told me that is rude and tacky. Is it?
I do not want a bad relationship with anyone. I never thought it was that big of a deal. Jack's girlfriend has lots of friends and I know they would throw her a shower, the other girl doesn't.
I guess to keep the peace I will either have a double shower or no shower.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:19 PM on Jan. 27, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by RyansMom001 at 5:58 PM on Jan. 27, 2013
Answer by virginiamama71 at 3:29 PM on Jan. 27, 2013
Answer by Nimue930 at 3:36 PM on Jan. 27, 2013
Answer by booklover545 at 4:16 PM on Jan. 27, 2013
Answer by Ballad at 4:31 PM on Jan. 27, 2013
Yes, it is VERY tacky. If you want to see your grandchild, I suggest getting over your bitter attitude.
Answer by JeremysMom at 3:21 PM on Jan. 27, 2013
Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 3:21 PM on Jan. 27, 2013
Answer by khedy at 5:10 PM on Jan. 27, 2013
Yes! You should do for both. Do you want to alienate yourself from any grandchildren with this woman? B/C that's where you're headed by playing favorites.
Answer by mrsmom110 at 3:21 PM on Jan. 27, 2013
Answer by But_Mommie at 3:22 PM on Jan. 27, 2013