A guy and I have been friends with benefits for several years now. We go months without speaking or hoping up. He is always the one who say: remember no emotions or expectations. Which is fine with me, I'm a single mom and plan on moving in 5 yrs when my youngest graduates high school.
I enjoy the sex and company of a man without being tied down in a relationship. No I do not see anyone else.
My question or problem is. What if he has someone - not just someone but maybe a real girl friend on the side?
I know, in the beginning we were both single. But like I said this has been years of on and off sex. We always use protection, condoms. And he started this FWB thing, as we've actually known each other over 20 years.
I worry, that he's cheating on someone else by being with me. We've been in this arrangement for 5 years now. He works two / three jobs so I don't know, when he'd have time for another woman. I'm always running with my kids and / or at work. It takes planning for us to meet up.
We just made plans via texting for next Friday.
We haven't been together in several months.
What would you think?
Would you be worried?
And yes, of course I have feeling for him, I do love him as a friend. But don't really see anything more. I've been divorced once and him twice. I'm not looking to be married again. At least not until my kids are all out if school.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:17 AM on Jan. 28, 2013 in Relationships
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