My ex husband trash talked my new DH in front of my kids since the moment he found out I was dating him. My ex has tried to physically fight my DH on more than one occasion, once in front of my 3 year old. My oldest son, 13, has always been very close to his Dad, and has followed suit with disrespecting DH. This all came about because DH's ex informed my ex about DH's past problems with alcohol and drugs. However, he's been clean and sober for over 8 years. DH is honest about his past problems and the fact that he takes pain medication for his back (he is legally 100% disabled). He doesn't take the medicine for fun. My son recently told me he thinks my DH is a "crack head" which is exactly what ex calls him. I'm tired of trying to convince my ex and his GF that DH is clean. Now my son is on their bandwagon, too?! I've tried talking to him many times and he durant respond, even in person. All he said last time was "he is a crackhead and I don't like your house." How am I supposed to have a relationship with my son when he ignores my texts and calls, doesn't want to come to my house, and talks crap about my DH? My 3 boys live with their Dad, by the way, & we have joint custody.
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