I was molested by my moms ex boyfriend from the time i was about 8 or 9 until i was 12, at first it didn't really effect me, but lately it's been such a struggle just to get out of bed, i've just been a huge train wreck, i blocked most of the details out, but even the little bit that i do remember is horrible painful to think about...if you were abused as a child how did you deal with it, or if you are struggling like me how do you get by from day to day? i feel like i'm suffocating, i think the biggest reason it's been bothering me so much lately is because he was released from jail in august and is living like 10miles away, oh and he was in jail for something else, statuary rape of a 14 year old girl, he got 4-10 and served the full 10... Please help me cope, i feel like it's destroying my relationship with my SOAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:51 PM on Feb. 13, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by sailorwifenmom at 12:52 AM on Feb. 14, 2009
you take it one day at a time. i am 32 i was abused from birth tell i was 16. as time passes by it will get a little easier to deal with. find someone to talk to someone who you know is safe and will not pass judgment. write your feelings down. yell scream get mad about it YOU have every right to. no child should ever go through this. many people that have gone through this do get pass it. you need to be able to get your feelings out. don't keep them bottled up. that is not healthy to do.always remember you are special and a wonderful person that can and will make it though this. me and my family will keep you in our prayers.
Answer by mommyand5 at 2:21 AM on Feb. 14, 2009
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