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How many times he goes to?

Hi I would like to know how frequently your husband goes to a stripclub? Do you mind if he goes with his friends without even letting you know? Do you have issue knowing or not knowing?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:56 PM on Feb. 4, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (24)
  • He's never went since we've been married and before that I think he only went to one a couple times. It's a waste of money and we'd rather do things together anyway.

    Answer by Hollyhock. at 1:18 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • Maybe 10 years ago, when his buddy got married? If he wanted to go, I doun't think he would have a problem telling me, and I wouldn't have a problem if he wanted to. Now, if he was going weekly and blowing a bunch of money we might have a problem.

    Answer by jerseydiva at 1:28 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • never
    and if he wanted to- I wouldn't care...I know he would be coming home to me

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 1:34 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • My husband has never been in a strip club.

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 1:47 PM on Feb. 4, 2013


    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 2:06 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • A few times a year, he doesn't need my permission to go. I like being secure :)

    Answer by funlovinlady at 3:09 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • That is a deal breaker for me but I am not married. Thank God!

    Answer by booklover545 at 3:35 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • It shouldn't matter what other people do. We're not in the same relationship as others. The only thing that matters is what you think since you're in it. Do you take polls on what to eat, when to poop, who you love? If you don't know what you want, that's an even bigger issue you need to examine before anything else. Figure out what you want and don't let anyone try to confuse you. Let what you want guide you to the right person *for you*

    Answer by hellokittykat at 7:52 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • One time that I know of. Not particularly worried about it.

    Answer by gdiamante at 12:38 AM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • Never. I don't even know if there is such a thing in the region ...

    Answer by winterglow at 3:00 AM on Feb. 5, 2013

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