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How many times he goes to?

Hi I would like to know how frequently your husband goes to a stripclub? Do you mind if he goes with his friends without even letting you know? Do you have issue knowing or not knowing?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:56 PM on Feb. 4, 2013 in Relationships

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  • My husband has always wanted to go to a strip club but I dont feel comfortable with him going it makes me feel like I am not good enough and that maybe he will expect me to look more like a model instead of a mother. Maybe if it would help tell him you would like to go with him even if its not your thing and if he does not agree with it then take some of your girlfriends and go to a male strip club and see how he feels on the situation sometimes it can be a big eye opener. My husband says he just want to go to experience it just once but I am afraid he will become addicted because he is just getting over his addiction to porn. He only watches it with me in our most sensual moments. I hope you find a good solution to your problem and im sorry you have to deal with it.

    Answer by Im-HiDdEn at 9:40 AM on Feb. 7, 2013

  • MIne has never even been to a strip club. If he were to go, he wants me to go with him. I don't mind if he goes on his own, though. It's more him wanting me to go with him.
    I wouldn't mind if he went like once a month by himself or with friends more often. I WOULD mind if he was lying to me about it. Honesty, to me, is more important then were he gets his "appetite." lol

    Answer by spiritguide_23 at 5:42 PM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • Mine never goes and he was pist when we fist met cause I use to work as a stripper. He says its disrespectful but he looks at a Lotta porn isnt that weird.. I dunno what's worse.. If he dont lie to you amd dont go all the time I suppose its just a guy thing.. They are weird and hard people to under stand

    Answer by itslife906 at 9:51 AM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • We went together a few times before we had kids together (I had 3 from my 1st marriage) and he would go now if I went with him, but he says he doesn't want to go without me. He even left a friends bachelor party early because he didn't want to go. Every once in a while with his friends wouldn't bother me, but him going alone or often would be a big problem.

    Answer by missanc at 7:27 AM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • Never. I don't even know if there is such a thing in the region ...

    Answer by winterglow at 3:00 AM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • One time that I know of. Not particularly worried about it.

    Answer by gdiamante at 12:38 AM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • It shouldn't matter what other people do. We're not in the same relationship as others. The only thing that matters is what you think since you're in it. Do you take polls on what to eat, when to poop, who you love? If you don't know what you want, that's an even bigger issue you need to examine before anything else. Figure out what you want and don't let anyone try to confuse you. Let what you want guide you to the right person *for you*

    Answer by hellokittykat at 7:52 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • That is a deal breaker for me but I am not married. Thank God!

    Answer by booklover545 at 3:35 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • A few times a year, he doesn't need my permission to go. I like being secure :)

    Answer by funlovinlady at 3:09 PM on Feb. 4, 2013


    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 2:06 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

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