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How many times he goes to?

Hi I would like to know how frequently your husband goes to a stripclub? Do you mind if he goes with his friends without even letting you know? Do you have issue knowing or not knowing?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:56 PM on Feb. 4, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (24)
  • I don't think he has been at least not in many years

    Answer by Dardenella at 1:00 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • Since we have been together, my husband has been once. His big night out right before we married. I would not like him going only because it is very expensive. I can think of several other ways to spend that money. If he was a regular I would wonder why. Is he bored at home and wants attention?

    Answer by txnmomof4 at 1:01 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • when I was married, he never went and he doesnt now that he's single. Its not his thing. I actually only know one guy that has been a few times.

    I would have a problem if I had a husband that went and went without saying because that is a lie. I dont want my husband wasting money that is suppose to go to the family and bills to through at half naked women,

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 1:01 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • My husband never goes... If he went for a guys night out, like a bacehlor party or something, I wouldn't care, but he's never been since Ive known him (but that's only been about three years)

    Answer by Nimue930 at 1:02 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • When I was young and had just gotten married, I didn't mind that he went to strip clubs (which he did a couple times a year) because when he came home, he would attack me. As I got older and our relationship started going downhill, I resented that he paid more attention to them than to me. Plus I knew I couldn't compete with them.
    My current SO does not go to strip clubs as he says I am enough for him and why should he tease himself. He can't touch those girls.

    Answer by tempsingl3mom at 1:04 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • He never goes to one not sure I would like it tough

    Answer by Alisim at 1:04 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • He doesn't. To be perfectly honest I'm not sure if he's EVER been to one. My husband was a square before I met him, things like that are still pretty taboo to him. I haven't thought much about how I'd feel if he ever wanted to go. I wouldn't have a problem with the looking but I don't think I'd be very happy about any lap dances and I know from working with mostly men for many years that this is very much the norm during bachelor parties, etc.

    Answer by maecntpntz219 at 1:06 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • My ex husband never went to strip clubs that I'm aware of.

    Answer by 3libras at 1:07 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • He does not go to strip clubs. I don't really think he is interested in going. Me, Going once in a great while would be ok. But more would bother me.

    Answer by louise2 at 1:11 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • Mine has never been to one. My ex, OTOH, practically lived there.

    Answer by 1smartcookie at 1:11 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

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