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If your DH has had a Vasectomy!?!?

If your DH has had a vacectomy .... Please answer these questions for me!!!!!!

How was the procedure done?
Was he given an IV, Pill, or other?
Was he out or consiece during the procedure?

What was the recovery period like?
How many days was he sore? Did he miss work?
How long until you had sex again?
Was there any pain during sex for him? How long did that last?
What helped him feel better?
Did "sexy" movies/commercials cause him pain (lol!)?

When he went in for a sperm count, where did he do it at? In the Drs room? The bathroom?
Was material given to him to help him get the job done? lol (like adult magazines)

Since having the procedure, do you notice any changes in your relationship? Is sex still as fun? Do you get along as well as you did before? Did it change either of your sex drives?
Anything else we should know?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:28 PM on Feb. 4, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • They stay awake, get a numbing shot , they cut a little slit pull the tube out snip it and cauterize it. Put it back add a stitch.
    Recovery was about two days, we had sex a week later, work the next day, they jizz in a cup at home & return it in a brown bag. I drew a sperm with a x across it on his bag ( nurses cracked up) . Sex drives normal
    funlovinlady

    Answer by funlovinlady at 5:40 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • It was super easy. He had a local numbing shot, they waited a couple of minutes, then snip snip. He said it took no more than two minutes and he was done.

    The recovery was easy. It itched a bit as it healed and it was a little tender for a day or so. Other than our three year old head butting him in the crotch a few hours after the surgery, he had no trouble.

    He was already off work because I had just had our youngest baby the day before he had it done.
    Because I'd just had a baby, we couldn't have sex for 6 weeks anyway. We made sure he had gotten two clear sperm counts before having sex. The sex was awesome. No pain and no worries about pregnancy.

    I think that he took the cup home and brought it back to drop off and test for sperm.

    Having the vasectomy was one of the best things he's EVER done. No more worries about getting pregnant, no birth control to kill the mood. Sex is more spontaneous.
    JulieJacobKyle

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 5:51 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • How was the procedure done? In the office
    Was he given an IV, Pill, or other? Numbing meds in the area.
    Was he out or consiece during the procedure? Wide awake

    What was the recovery period like? Three days doing nothing and doing what the doc said so no swelling.
    How many days was he sore? Did he miss work? Sore for a week to 10 days.
    How long until you had sex again? Don't remember but not too long.
    Was there any pain during sex for him? How long did that last? No
    What helped him feel better? Advil
    Did "sexy" movies/commercials cause him pain-no

    When he went in for a sperm count, where did he do it at? In the Drs room? The bathroom? I gues
    Was material given to him to help him get the job done? lol (like adult magazines) ya

    Since having the procedure, do you notice any changes in your relationship? Is sex still as fun? Do you get along as well as you did before? Did it change either of your sex dr
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:03 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • Nothing has changed at all. It was easy. He did it on a Friday and worked Monday.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:04 PM on Feb. 4, 2013

  • At the base clinic.
    Pill (that didn't kick in till way after the procedure was complete.)
    Def conscience

    About 2 weeks, and stairs are murder.
    1 day off work, sore for 2 wks
    Within that two wk period. Dr says whenever he feels up to it again.
    Yes, the first couple times.
    Didn't take anything.
    He doesn't watch those.
    They gave him a sample cup and told him to bring the sample in after the designated time frame.
    Sex is still great, when we do it :/ Just had our 5th 9 1/2 weeks ago.
    hopeandglory53

    Answer by hopeandglory53 at 6:47 PM on Feb. 4, 2013