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My boyfriend of 1 year has an ex wife he's been with for 9 years. The 9 year relationship had a lot of cheating going on. They cheated on each other, and acted as if they were single, but they still lived together. I mean, its crazy still. Although they saw other people, they still managed to stick together for 9 years. Her being 28 now, and he's now 31. They've been broken up for 2 years because she had gotten pregnant by another man. They have no children together.
We had a lot of problems in our relationship because these two were talking. I don't know how many times they've talked since we met. About what, and how long. But in the beginning of our relationship, I had asked him why? He said they were together for almost a decade. They been through a lot together.
He claims hes been over her for a very long time now. I believe its been 7 months since they've talked. He promised he would never talk to her again. But for some reason. I don't think they will ever ever stop talking. Even if 2 years go by, I believe they will eventually start talking again.
I'm very insecure about these two.
Do I have my reasons to be? 9 years is a very long time. And obviously these two were madly in love with each other! Although he says the way he feels about me, hes never felt before....
I guess my real question here is. Will he ever be able to love me like he loved her or even more? Considering they were teen sweet hearts and everything!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:59 PM on Feb. 4, 2013 in Relationships
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