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What have you done to maintain your identity since you've met your significant other ?

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Asked by gwen20 at 8:55 PM on Feb. 5, 2013 in Relationships

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  • I haven't really felt the need to do anything. I still get together with my friends, maintain my hobbies and watch my tv shows but other than that - we're a team!

    Answer by missanc at 9:10 PM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • We never changed,really
    The only thing we gave up was going to the movies on Saturday nights

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:16 PM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • I don't have to try...I got to keep my identity. We are both homebodies, but when we want to go out with our friends we go.

    Answer by coala at 9:54 PM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • Divorced him lol

    Answer by AnonNdrag at 9:55 PM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • What have you done to get a significant other Gwen?

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 9:56 PM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • not much, cause i never felt like i was losing it. i have my likes, he has his, and we have some similar ones too.

    Answer by okmanders at 10:01 PM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • I'm supposed to have my own identity? Huh, maybe that's what I was doing wrong. I just assumed we should do everything the same. Hell, I even wore his underwear.

    Answer by kmath at 10:02 PM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • I act trollish in CM answers, no wait, that's not me. Oh dear, I am in a happy relationship and I fear I have lost my identity! I guess I should have maintained it.

    Answer by tessiedawg at 10:32 PM on Feb. 5, 2013

  • Did I somehow black out during the part of my vows that said I had to change who I was? I thought my dh feel in love with who I was, not with who he thought he could change me into. Huh. Maybe that's the cause of some of our problems. Thanks for clearing that one up.

    Answer by spiritguide_23 at 12:46 AM on Feb. 6, 2013

  • Nothing. Being with him didn't change my identity, though I guess he's become a part of it.

    Answer by maecntpntz219 at 12:52 AM on Feb. 6, 2013

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