My ex and I have been split up for 2 years now. We went our separate ways when we just started fighting over little things. I didn't think that he appreciated me. We also had a baby together and we were always stressed. We went on like this for about 1 1/2 years before I moved out. After I moved out we would still contact each other but after a while we just didn't communicate at all. He started dating someone and that ended about a year ago. We are on good terms, he has our son every other weekend and we are civil.
The other day he came by to drop off our son. He was asleep so my ex laid him in his bed. We got to talking. Next thing I know we are laughing about the old days. He asked me if I was seeing anyone. I said no. He said he wasn't either. He told me that even though he was with his last girlfriend for a year he never felt it was right. He said he always knew that he loved me still and he was just trying to fill the void. He asked me if I still loved him. I told him that I have love for him. I wasn't sure if I was still "in love" with him. He said that he screwed things up when he let me go. He asked me if I wanted to give us another try. I told him that I needed to think things over.
I didn't know what to say to all of this. A lot has changed. Our son is 4 years old now. He was just a baby when we split. If I was totally honest with myself I know that in my heart I do love him still. I just don't know if I want to take the risk of being hurt. I have not dated since we broke up because it was just so hard to get over the heartbreak. Also I was busy building a life for me and my son. He text me this morning asking if we can go somewhere to talk about what he said the other night. This has me so confused and I really don't know what to decide.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:17 PM on Feb. 6, 2013 in Relationships
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