Back before DH and I got married, he introduced me to a female friend of his, we will call C. She has a son who is friends with my SS13. She was polite, although I didnt care for the constant calls and texts and showing up at our house unannounced late at night to ask if SS13 could spend the night. If DH & SS13 ignored the texts, C would send her kid over with whoever to ask. Apparently she gets around since it was a different man she was dating each time her son came over. Not cool when we had a housefull of sleeping children...6 of them. After that happened several times, I'd had enough. DH said he was not happy with it, and it got on his nerves. SS13 said he wasn't happy with it. The day we got married, the kid called 5 times, and text all day, after being told it was our wedding day and SS13 was at the wedding. Well the day after our wedding, C answered my FB message. I had asked her to please get her son to stop texting and calling so late, & let her know that we had 5 other children here asleep when he kept showing up. I also told her that it would be best if she herself talked to an adult in the house before sending her son. Supposedly her son kept saying we gave him permission to come over, but she never checked with us. She went off on me and said "just because you finally got him to marry you doesnt give you the right to be a bitch." I was nothing but polite to her, and I was simply trying to get some normalcy to the household. DH talked to her and told me they both thought I was immature for messaging her on FB, and he took her side. WTH?! I spent the next week after I got married bawling. I was just trying to handle a problem no one in the house liked but wouldn't address. How do I explain to him that he let me down by not backing me up? I thought thats what a husband and wife were supposed to do?
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