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Why are teenagers in such a hurry to get pregnant?

I just had a conversation with this teenager she just turned 18. she trying to get pregnant by every man including the one she with but hes very careful. she told me this morning she woke up and ate a krispy treat and hot fries. i cursed her out because she think every sign and food is pregnant food. the only thing she said been hurting her is her head. she do have allergies. she have drillweekends so i told her u need to stop because a child is a very big responsibility was i wrong?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:51 PM on Feb. 10, 2013 in General Parenting

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  • No, you weren't wrong. And, she's an idiot. IF this question is legit & you're not just a troll.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 6:52 PM on Feb. 10, 2013

  • lol im not a troll im just anon becuase i didnt want to be criticized i know a young girl with 4 kids. she had her first one at 12
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 6:54 PM on Feb. 10, 2013

  • You know why so many kids what to be grown ups and have babies because they had parents that never let them experience how hard it is to be an adult and think that having kids and bills is easy. You weren't wrong to try and make her wait, but your words may not have any impact depending on how well you know her.
    amandajoy21

    Answer by amandajoy21 at 6:56 PM on Feb. 10, 2013

  • no i said more than that to her but in a most educational way she would understand it...and your response is awesome
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:00 PM on Feb. 10, 2013

  • Who are her role models? How does she live at home? Does she have a job? Does she work for the things that she has?

    Something tells me that this is something she sees around her and thinks it is an easier life than getting an education and supporting herself.

    My guess is she has her own reasons. Everybody has a story. Maybe you should ask for hers.
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 7:11 PM on Feb. 10, 2013

  • Pssssttt staci, this post is an example of your post.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:31 PM on Feb. 10, 2013

  • Are you the same person who came on here freaking out because her daughter had the flu and you swore she was pregnant?
    Mrs_Prissy

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 7:45 PM on Feb. 10, 2013

  • lol no lol maybe i should never went anon
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:05 PM on Feb. 10, 2013

  • Many times I think they are trying to fill a void, and are looking for unconditional love, which a child brings, especially if they are obsessed with becoming pregnant with any and every man that comes along, very sad.
    Princess_s21

    Answer by Princess_s21 at 8:32 PM on Feb. 10, 2013

  • Why would you go Anon? Makes no sense, unless you are a troll.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:47 PM on Feb. 10, 2013

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