My BFF has been really upset about money and made it sound like she & her son weren't going to even be able to buy groceries. So I gave her $1000 from my tax return to help out. She just seemed so hard up for money & I felt bad. So then this weekend she goes out and gets a new car, a new tattoo, and sent me a picture of some new shoes. WTF??? I thought this was going toward bills! She knows how we just bought a new house and how much I could use that money! I know I have no right to be angry since it was a gift, but if I would have known she was going to use it for superficial shit, I wouldn't have given it to her. Live & learn & just shut up, I know. But I had to vent for a second.
So my question is... What the fuck?
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:44 AM on Feb. 11, 2013
Answer by LostSoul88 at 9:14 AM on Feb. 11, 2013
I would be pissed too, however I have learned over time that if I want the money to go to something specific that I pay that particular thing instead of trusting someone else with money. Hopefully she doesn't complain about money to you again. If she does, you have an 'I told you so' to pull out of the hat.
On another note, that was a really nice and caring thing to do for a friend. She doesn't know how lucky she is.
Answer by QuinnMae at 9:59 AM on Feb. 11, 2013
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