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Funeral - do i go?

a friend of my husband's died today. he was 25. overdose. he was a friend of my husband and another guy.
the funeral is Saturday. my husband is going of course. i did not know this man. should i just have him go with his friend which he already plans on doing? he hasn't asked me to go. or do i insert myself into the situation?

edit:well everybody asking "WHY DON'T I JUST ASK HIM IF HE WANTS ME TO GO"... i will ask him but he's sleeping so I asked your opinion on the topic. Is that okay? It's not like this section of CafeMom is jumping with activity! Sorry if I bothered you by asking. besides, i get the distinct impression that he fully intends to just go with his buddy.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:26 PM on Feb. 11, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • I would just let him go with his friend.
    funlovinlady

    Answer by funlovinlady at 11:27 PM on Feb. 11, 2013

  • I would simply ask my husband if he would like me to go with him. Either choice would be fine with me.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 11:30 PM on Feb. 11, 2013

  • I wouldn't go unless he wants you there for support.
    JulieJacobKyle

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 11:29 PM on Feb. 11, 2013

  • discuss this with your DH... understand if he just wants to go with his friend but you should talk to him about this... not us
    Crafty26

    Answer by Crafty26 at 11:40 PM on Feb. 11, 2013

  • Why not just come out and ask him if he wants you to go, and tell him you're okay with it either way?
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 11:46 PM on Feb. 11, 2013

  • Why don't you just ask him?

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:29 PM on Feb. 11, 2013

  • Wait for an invitation.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 11:30 PM on Feb. 11, 2013

  • Only if he asks you to go.
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 11:30 PM on Feb. 11, 2013

  • I'd just ask him if he wants you to go with him.
    AllAboutKeeley

    Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 12:09 AM on Feb. 12, 2013

  • I wouldn't go unless dh asked you to come for moral support
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:10 AM on Feb. 12, 2013

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