my husband came to me and said we need to stop TTC (temporarily) so it doesnt interfear with saving up for the down payment for house being built. He says he wouldnt want something to happen where i end up bed ridden or somethin that could cost money for saving for the house he says we need focus on one thing at a time. i was like ok?. He said he would take percautions cause we didnt want me back on birth control. he then slept with me 3 times without percautions which confused me i just thought his mind changed? then 1 week later (yesterday) he said he is now going to start pulling out so we dont get pregnant . Ok i got upset this time around cause of the 3 times we had sex unprotected after the first discussion. can you see my confusion? Now when he pulls out I cry. i cry & i dont know why but i cry after he pulls out .Has anyone ever gone through this before? or am I just nuts? what can i do to help my situation?Answer Question
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