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Why in some cases thats how get the attention?

Why in some cases when you say that you're leaving and the relationship is over that's when they change and pay attention to things only when they feel that they're really going to lose you. Why in some cases it has to come to that to change or make him realized that the relationship has problems?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:45 PM on Feb. 12, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (16)
  • fuck if i know....ask him
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 2:46 PM on Feb. 12, 2013

  • Why when a tree falls in the woods no one hears it? That's the real mystery!
    ILovemyPaulie

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 2:48 PM on Feb. 12, 2013

  • you haz a leak too.
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 2:48 PM on Feb. 12, 2013

  • Because boys are stupid.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 2:49 PM on Feb. 12, 2013

  • Cause they are scared to leave cause it means being responsible, or pay attention to the problems so they change for some time but most of the times go back to their ways.
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 2:52 PM on Feb. 12, 2013

  • Chances are it's just a delaying tactic. He isn't going to change, not really. He just goes along with it temporarily so that you forgive him and stay. Then, slowly, he gets back to the business of being an asshole.
    hootie826

    Answer by hootie826 at 2:53 PM on Feb. 12, 2013

  • Human nature
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 3:06 PM on Feb. 12, 2013

  • Happened to me last night.... Now we are on a no speaking terms and he is asking me when he gets the baby and on what weekends when I keep offering marraige counselor... Wish I could help but we're in this boat together.
    Im-HiDdEn

    Answer by Im-HiDdEn at 5:09 PM on Feb. 12, 2013

  • Im sorry to hear this Imhidden. Hope things get better!
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 6:02 PM on Feb. 12, 2013

  • Men think once they won the prize there is no need to dust it and take care of it. They need to be reminded. It's a shame it has to be done by threats. Keep training him though. He'll figure it out one day.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 3:38 AM on Feb. 13, 2013

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