my hubby is deployed, and the only thing that he got me was him saying 'happy valentines day' yesterday (his time). I put together a big box full of stuff and sent it to him.
I know that i shouldn't just expect something from him, but the only thing i got today was an email card from my mom. I know he loves me, but i don't know. I just feel. . . .avoided, forgotten, alone, you know?
I made sure our kids had a good day. we made cookies, and decorated them. Then went out back and played in the snow and went sledding. and I know that i should be happy that I made them happy with their day.
I'm mad at myself because its a stupid greeting card day, but its just hard. i need to go to bed. . .lol
Asked by Anonymous at 11:31 PM on Feb. 14, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by cjbj08 at 11:48 PM on Feb. 14, 2009
Answer by rebel07 at 12:49 AM on Feb. 15, 2009
Since he is deployed, no I would not get mad at him. He has way too much stuff on his mind right now I am sure. I think that it is great that he called and told you happy valentines day. Depending on where he is it is much easier for you to go shopping and mail stuff off to him than it is for him to send you anything.
Answer by Magpie75 at 2:36 AM on Feb. 15, 2009