my DH says he is so busy and that is why he gives me ZERO attention and time. I mean ZERO. He does not work on weekends - ever. Today he took hours fixing a dirtbike. i stood out in the garage with him just to be with him. he said he also had schoolwork to do etc. well his friend calls (that lives an hour away) and says the family of a friend that recently passed is having a party so he ran on down there.
so I guess i have to DROP DEAD to get him to make time for me. He was suddenly able to take 4 or 5 hours out of his busy schedule today to go to a party! and tomorrow he will be at a dirtbike race all day.
what exactly am I supposed to do to get him to make me a priority? die? become a dirtbike?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:46 PM on Feb. 16, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 7:04 PM on Feb. 16, 2013
Answer by Ballad at 7:12 PM on Feb. 16, 2013
Find something you enjoy. If your DH is home on weekends he can watch the kids sometimes while you find things you enjoy doing.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 7:16 PM on Feb. 16, 2013
I hear ya. I was more lonely when I was married than now that I live alone. I had a garage built for my x so he would stay home. Then I had to go outside to the garage to spend time with him. That got so old. Just curious, why didn't you go to the park with him to walk the dog? You could have stopped at the coffee shop together on the way back. I can't explain men like your dh and my x. Good luck with this but don't die for his attention. Try other stuff.
Answer by admckenzie at 7:22 PM on Feb. 16, 2013
LOL, are we married to the same person ?????????? It sounds like middle age crisis to me!!!
Answer by MamaaSutra at 10:52 PM on Feb. 16, 2013
Answer by Dardenella at 12:08 AM on Feb. 17, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 1:10 AM on Feb. 17, 2013
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