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Grumpy?

do think its offensive to tell someone they look grumpy?

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fay101

Asked by fay101 at 12:30 AM on Feb. 19, 2013 in Just for Fun

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Answers (12)
  • depends on the context
    Crafty26

    Answer by Crafty26 at 12:35 AM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • Agree with Crafty. Who said it, how well do I know them, etc.
    KA91

    Answer by KA91 at 12:37 AM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • Depends on who it is saying it , how they say it and if its true or not.
    Princess_s21

    Answer by Princess_s21 at 12:39 AM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 12:46 AM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • If someone looks grumpy and you tell her that, you might get a truly grumpy response. If you know her well enough to say anything at all, you might be better off trying something like, "You look unhappy. Is something going on you want to talk about?"
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 12:47 AM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • Depends on who the person is.
    maecntpntz219

    Answer by maecntpntz219 at 12:55 AM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • Better question would be why do you think they look grumpy? It would better if you just asked them how their day was going. They may just be thinking or have a headache etc . I have had people ask me this question several times when I have not been grumpy just really in a deep thought process. I always thought it was a little rude but if someone asked me, how is life treating you today? I would be more inclined to tell them great or if I were actually grumpy I may let them know that life wasn't being so nice to me. Remember what they say about the word assume. Never assume because 9 out of 10 times you will be wrong in your assumption.
    AvidResearchMom

    Answer by AvidResearchMom at 1:22 AM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • yeah it isn't going to make them less grumpy
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 1:48 AM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • No but words can be hurtful and offensive so sometimes its better to jsut keep your mouth shut.
    Im-HiDdEn

    Answer by Im-HiDdEn at 8:40 AM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • Well it is going to depend on who ask me and how they ask me. But if I am grumpy they may get an even grumpier response lol

    Alisim

    Answer by Alisim at 8:41 AM on Feb. 19, 2013

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