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What does this mean?

my husband has been struggling with our marriage. today he called me and said he still doesn't know how he feels about us. he says we should "try something different" and date again.

ok. what exactly do i do? what does this mean? he is so emotional that he is crying. he really has no idea if he loves me or not. i am devastated.

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:27 PM on Feb. 19, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (19)
  • It means he wants to make it work.

    Answer by maecntpntz219 at 12:28 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • the situation for him atm isnt right/working for him and he wants to sort something

    Answer by san78 at 12:30 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • Date each other or others? BIG DIFFERENCE.

    If others, he wants to see if he can find someone "better" or is already seeing someone & laying to ground work for it to look legit.
    If you, then he's trying to get the "spark" back.

    Answer by 3libras at 12:33 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • lol, no, date each other! oh my, sorry for the confusion. we still live together.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 12:35 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • It means h e wants something different. He wants to go out on a date with his wife. be glad he is trying.

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 12:39 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • date you

    spice it up a bit
    does not have to be big all the time, just a little something
    remember to point out nice things about him every day, things he might not think about are so noticeable
    - this might help?

    good luck

    Answer by fiatpax at 12:51 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • get into some counselling... ASAP!

    Answer by Crafty26 at 1:20 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • thank you, fiatpax. i hope we can turn this around.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:56 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • I think dating each other will really help you with the problems but you should also look for some counceling. Good Luck

    Answer by Alisim at 2:07 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • I think all couples should date each other, before and after marriage. Tell him it's a great idea and to stop crying and get ready!

    Answer by admckenzie at 4:35 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

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