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Should I be jealous?

My BF showed me a weblink tonight of his now famous exGF. She is hot and doing something he would love to do.

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MChildressDem

Asked by MChildressDem at 10:15 PM on Feb. 19, 2013 in Relationships

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  • Depends. Do you want to be his hot ex girlfriend? Or do you want to be his now girlfriend?

    JeremysMom

    Answer by JeremysMom at 10:19 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • I would just move on, You are better than that.
    sunshine196

    Answer by sunshine196 at 10:20 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • JeremysMom, I want to be his "now girlfriend". Why?
    MChildressDem

    Comment by MChildressDem (original poster) at 10:21 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • Jealousy is pretty much pointless. What good will it possibly do?
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 10:22 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • Sunshine, he didn't show me to rub it in. He showed me because he was weirded out by it.
    MChildressDem

    Comment by MChildressDem (original poster) at 10:22 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • Then why be jealous? You have him not her.

    JeremysMom

    Answer by JeremysMom at 10:23 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • I guess it would depend on the why.
    I am not intimidated by "hot" women or ex girlfriends. My hubby always goes home with me
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 10:24 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • How did he find out about this link?
    skinnyslokita

    Answer by skinnyslokita at 10:24 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • doing something he would love to do.
    he was weirded out by it.

    this makes zero sense
    feralxat

    Answer by feralxat at 10:46 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

  • if you know he showed you because he was weirded out
    then this is not 'on' him
    it is 'on' you

    have you had jealous issues in past? meaning- do you seem to get jealous for no or slight reasons?
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 10:58 PM on Feb. 19, 2013

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