My daughter is getting married in about a year. She and her dad have not spoken in 11 years. He deeply hurt her emotionally, ( his new love would cry if my daughter asked to spent time alone with her dad, so he told my daughter they shouldn't see each other any more)and until he is willing to acknowledge how much he hurt her, ( he doesn't think he did anything wrong) and makes attempts to help heal the wounds he caused, she does not feel emotionally able to invite him to the wedding. It would ruin her day. She is very close to her grandfather, and he wants her to invite her dad, and that would mean including his "new" wife and kids whom he abandoned my daughter (and son) for. She wants to meet with her grandfather and explain why she can't invite her dad. ( he has no idea his son is such a douche) But she also doesn't want to tell him, because after all it is is son. What do you think she should do?
Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 3:40 PM on Feb. 23, 2013
Answer by wendythewriter at 3:31 PM on Feb. 23, 2013
Answer by silverthreads at 3:35 PM on Feb. 23, 2013
Answer by staciandababy at 3:39 PM on Feb. 23, 2013
It's her wedding... NO ONE should put pressure on her to invite anyone she doesn't want there. She can tell the grandfather she is not inviting the father and offer to explain why if her wants to hear it. If he does not she should just carry on with HER plans for HER wedding. Screw what anyone else thinks!!
Answer by Crafty26 at 3:43 PM on Feb. 23, 2013
Answer by spiritguide_23 at 3:42 PM on Feb. 23, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 4:27 PM on Feb. 23, 2013
I would invite the dad and just be cordial.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 3:33 PM on Feb. 23, 2013
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