why she is choosing to leave is none of our business. The point is that she is choosing to leave. I would listen to the first poster if you are in an abusive relationship. If you don't feel comfortable with that then make a plan and work with a local domestic violence shelter to get out and away before he can get upset and react. If you are not in an abusive relationship and just want to leave, do the same thing basically, make a plan. I saved up, rented an apt, rented a truck and one day I knew he was working I packed and left before he knew what happen. They all get upset to some degree whether it's over the loss or just upset there is no one to cook for them! I figure he had his chance and he didn't give you what you need in a marriage so you want out. Check with sites like www.womenslaw.org and link to Know the Laws if you are removing children from him. Just stay safe.
at 3:48 PM on Feb. 15, 2009