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What does he mean?

My boyfriend of 8 months told me he feels like something is missing from out relationship, and I dont know what to do with that. I know im not as happy as i once was when we first got together. I'm debating on ending things with him, but im not sure. I'm so back and forth on this. He will not tell me what is missing, he just says " i dont know" ugh. I'm so confused. I have told him i love him, but he says the word has lost all meaning, and he would rather show his love. I still think hes bsing me. What would you ladies do?

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MommaCat0408

Asked by MommaCat0408 at 6:01 PM on Feb. 26, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (21)
  • If you're already considering ending things with him just end it.
    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 6:03 PM on Feb. 26, 2013

  • 8 months in and the spark is gone? Don't waste 8 more!
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 6:03 PM on Feb. 26, 2013

  • Sounds like he's about to break it off with you and/or he has already cheated on you
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:04 PM on Feb. 26, 2013

  • hes trying to leave
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 6:04 PM on Feb. 26, 2013

  • I'd back off and take a break from him. You both sound like you need to figure it out and putting distance between you could help with that.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 6:05 PM on Feb. 26, 2013

  • If a SO told me what he told you. I would tell him. " I guess you are saying you are breaking up with me" "Bye"
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 6:05 PM on Feb. 26, 2013

  • Time to depart--that's what he means. What's missing should be you!
    NannyB.

    Answer by NannyB. at 6:09 PM on Feb. 26, 2013

  • Time to end it.
    OenophiliaMama

    Answer by OenophiliaMama at 6:09 PM on Feb. 26, 2013

  • Time to move on
    LostSoul88

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 6:13 PM on Feb. 26, 2013

  • He is not into the relationship anymore. Time for you to move on.
    Bmat

    Answer by Bmat at 6:18 PM on Feb. 26, 2013

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