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So, if someone messaged you on a Dating site..

and THIS was at the end of his profile:

"KISS.... keep it simple stupid. Lol"

Would you feel insulted? Is he calling all the girls stupid?

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:46 PM on Feb. 27, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • I wouldn't respond back.
    He may think it's funny to insult women and it works on them.

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 3:47 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • First I would wonder why I was on a dating site. Then I would delete that guy for being stupid.

    Answer by staciandababy at 3:49 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • I'm with Lost. I wouldn't respond to it. Whether it's actually directed at women or a reference to something else (maybe to keep his own profile simple or something), I would just find it to be a turn off.

    Answer by wendythewriter at 3:49 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • I would not reply back.

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 3:52 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • I might message him, and say that you found his comment stupid, and if he is wanting dates he probably shouldn't call anyone stupid!

    Answer by jerseydiva at 3:54 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • I don't see the big deal about it. He probably finds it funny - it's not. I just don't think its something to base your opinion on his perception of women on. I really see this as putting too much thought into a harmless comment.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 3:59 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • Please be extra cautious on those sites. There are cra cra crazzzzy men on there. I was stalked recently when a friend made a profile for me( without my knowledge). I had to change my phone number and go to the police when he threatened to chop me in pieces and put me in his freezer so we'd be together forever! Eeek. I'm still jumpy.

    To answer your question, no I wouldn't answer him.

    Answer by PandaGwen at 4:02 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • That's a very common signature among bikers.
    I've heard that multiple times... meaning that if you over complicate, or read too much into something, (as you are now) you're dumbing it up.

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 4:05 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • I wouldn't consider it worth my time or effort to think about it let alone answer.

    Answer by Dardenella at 4:31 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • How old is this guy? I would not respond to it. Because he is immature.  He is trying to get dates that way.


    Answer by louise2 at 4:31 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

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