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If you found out that your husband had an affair

a week before you got married, how would you react. You have been married 15 years and have a child together.

Not me, lol, saw it on TV.


Asked by Dardenella at 8:07 PM on Feb. 27, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • At this particular point, I would probably be wanting to find her and see if she wanted him. lol (Is it obvious I am pissed at my husband right now).

    Now, if I was in a less upset mood when he told me/I found out, I would probably try to think about how the relationship has gone since then. I am a firm believer in giving people a chance, so I would probably be hurt but I would try to get past it.

    Answer by spiritguide_23 at 12:20 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • sorry, I couldnt handle it.It would just make me wonder how many other affairs he has had and how many lies he's told.

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 9:26 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • Eh. Whatever.

    Answer by staciandababy at 8:09 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • I don't know being engaged I expect more, I expect respect and faithfulness. Then the fact I find out 15 years later I think I'd be over it.

    Answer by skinnyslokita at 8:28 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • If he had been faithful after that, then...meh. I think I could get over that. Now if there was a child from that affair, it would be harder.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 8:22 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • A lot of men do that to make sure they are making the right decision. I'd rather it be before the wedding and not after!

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:26 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • I'd probably be devestated and would want counseling but if I felt sure it was just that one time I don't think it'd be a deal breaker.

    Answer by maecntpntz219 at 9:49 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • I don't know... I'd have to see how big of a douche he's been since then!

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 1:42 AM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • how is he my fiance but we've been married for 15 years?

    Answer by tnm786 at 8:36 PM on Feb. 27, 2013

  • Never would get to that point. Not my type of person .

    Answer by sunshine196 at 9:36 PM on Feb. 27, 2013