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In question form.. Why do you feel the need to report dads looking for help.

I'm sure Andrew shue reads our posts from time to time, ban him maybe!?

What about men who aren't done with their gender reassignments!?

What about women who are going through gender surgery?


Better admin?

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funlovinlady

Asked by funlovinlady at 6:09 PM on Feb. 28, 2013 in About CafeMom

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  • i do not feel any need to report members that are men, or making any gender changes
    not my job

    i do not know why your last question went poof
    so i made a couple myself

    let's keep that admin earn their keep
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 6:11 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • I never report men when it's clear they are here for help. I know a lot of people get all up in arms about it though
    Mrs_Prissy

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 6:12 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • I agree... I have been a long time questioner about this issue. I think if a man comes here and is respectful and needs help, then he should be welcome. But some moms get all kinds of freakin crazy about the issue. {{shrug}}

    As if there are men here anyway. There a couple that I am sure are men.
    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 6:16 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • I never feel the need to report that. Really, all I've ever reported is spam showing up in here.
    SWasson

    Answer by SWasson at 6:22 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • i reported an anon who was trying to push a woman who wanted to kill herself
    it was sickening

    i reported every single comment that was encouraging her to kill herself
    and admin did NOTHING!!

    reporting anything just means zero to me
    if they do not take off something as sick and wrong as those kill yourself comments
    i feel no need at all to report anything
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 6:27 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • What about men who aren't done with their gender reassignments!?

    What about women who are going through gender surgery?


    There are pre and post op transgender members here already, m to f and f to m, and they are not in violation of the ToS, no matter how many times the bible bangers try reporting them. One of them had a very long question and answer section in groups at one point, and it started a lot of pearl clutching, but they lost.
    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 6:28 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • I really care if men are on here. As long as as they are acting right and not using cafemom as a pick up place.

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 6:31 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • I've only reported one guy. He came here from FB & his question was not about children.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 6:34 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • I really DON'T care I meant
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 7:07 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

  • So when all is said and done, wonder if the guy has figured out yet to start a new acct and not mention he's male yet...
    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 7:08 PM on Feb. 28, 2013

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