I don't know where to start. I have so much going on in my life and no one to really talk to. Im a single mom of 3. I never saw my life like this. Every girl dreams of growing up and have a great family. I some how ended up with crap. Love my kids other then that theres nothing good. Im 25 years old. Ive always said i wanted to be married at 25 and start having kids at 26. So thats not going to happen. My first two kids are with a man whom doesnt take care of them. He says im the reason he doesnt see them. Ive offered but he would always come up with a reason not to see them. Not a problem. My child dont need them to be in their life they have uncles and grandpa to look up to. The problem? He is over 9,000 behind on child support. That is only for one child. (yes ive called and reported it). Child support enforcement doesnt do anything. Now i have an 8 month old. Wheres his dad? Jail. He decided he wanted to do something dumb and got cought. Maybe he will learn his lesson. I highly doubt it. So here i am with 3 kids and no income or help from their fathers. Would be nice if their family would offer to help or hell would offer to see them. Of course not. I have called their grandparents to see if they would like to see their grand children. Guess what? they say yes. But actions speak louder then words. No one makes the effort but me, and thats apparently not doing enough. I give up on trying. I struggle to make sure my children have. i make 7.25 an hour and dont get 40 hours a week. Im just getting depressed being alone all the time and struggling. I cant get another job, because then i dont have a baby sitter. My mom watches the kids now. But i have a hard time even paying her. My life consists of working and dealing with the kid. There is no middle for me. I never get time to myself. I would like just ONE day of sleeping in. A day to hang out with a friend. Just something. I dont ever ask for much. But the lil bit i do want i never get. The father of my last promises so much when he gets out. I dont believe him. I know it will never be what i want.. Im starting to think ill never find a decent man. A man that wants a woman with 3 small children. Im just so alone and getting more and more depressed as the days go by. I dont know what to do any more. I cry every night. I know thats not healthy but i just cant help it. How can a single stuggling mom be happy?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 8:47 PM on Feb. 28, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by missanc at 8:52 PM on Feb. 28, 2013
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Answer by feralxat at 10:07 PM on Feb. 28, 2013
Try and pick up some skills from the internet. Also try for school financial aid http://www.scholarships.com/financial-aid/college-scholarships/scholarships-by-type/college-scholarships-and-grants-for-single-mothers/ also time stay away from past and future guys for now , You can do it.
Answer by sunshine196 at 10:48 PM on Feb. 28, 2013
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Answer by hellokittykat at 3:26 PM on Mar. 1, 2013
If you get any Government-Aid, the should go after them and garish their wages.
OR you should be able to get A.F.D.C.
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Answer by SissyAnn141 at 11:34 PM on Mar. 2, 2013
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