My husband and I have been separated for the past two months. Up until recently he hated my guts and we were ready to sign the divorce papers. He even threatened to take my children away. Now all of a sudden he wants to work things out. I started going to a church a few weeks ago and he's always hated the church my mom goes to. Now all of a sudden he's going and even accepted Christ as his savior the first time he came back. Something I haven't done yet, btw.
He's really trying to work things out, but sometimes I wonder if going to church is just another aspect of my life he's using to control my choices and make me come back. I'm back in his house for the first time in two months and I'm already starting to feel suffocated. I don't want to work on this marriage. I want to move on. I tried to tell him that yesterday but all he did was quote what the pastor said back to me. Telling me it's just my fear talking. It's not my fear. I feel it in my gut that this isn't right. Help!
Asked by Anonymous at 10:18 PM on Feb. 28, 2013 in Relationships
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