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Do you daydream?

I always have, I am constantly playing out scenarios in my head.

I will think "I should take the baby for a walk in the stroller"

Then five minutes after I imagine walking down the street and having a car hit us or a man come up to us with a gun and say he wants the stroller and running home with my baby in my arms or etc.

Then we don't go on the walk.

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staciandababy

Asked by staciandababy at 3:06 PM on Mar. 6, 2013 in Health

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Answers (13)
  • yes fairly often
    LostSoul88

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 3:07 PM on Mar. 6, 2013

  • yep. its part of my anxiety disorder...i replay old scenarios working out differently and how future situations could go horribly wrong. it drives DH crazy so i usually keep them to myself. i have good ones too tho...like the one where i run away with The Doctor and he takes me to other planets & to see history...thats a very good one haha.
    okmanders

    Answer by okmanders at 3:17 PM on Mar. 6, 2013

  • Yes, sometimes.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 3:18 PM on Mar. 6, 2013

  • I get a bad case of "whatif" now and then.


    Whatif by Shel Silverstein

    Last night, while I lay thinking here,
    some Whatifs crawled inside my ear
    and pranced and partied all night long
    and sang their same old Whatif song:
    Whatif I'm dumb in school?
    Whatif they've closed the swimming pool?
    Whatif I get beat up?
    Whatif there's poison in my cup?
    Whatif I start to cry?
    Whatif I get sick and die?
    Whatif I flunk that test?
    Whatif green hair grows on my chest?
    Whatif nobody likes me?
    Whatif a bolt of lightning strikes me?
    Whatif I don't grow taller?
    Whatif my head starts getting smaller?
    Whatif the fish won't bite?
    Whatif the wind tears up my kite?
    Whatif they start a war?
    Whatif my parents get divorced?
    Whatif the bus is late?
    Whatif my teeth don't grow in straight?
    Whatif I tear my pants?
    Whatif I never learn to dance?
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 3:23 PM on Mar. 6, 2013

  • Yes, I think like that too! I'm contemplating whether or not to take the truck to pick up my Son off the bus or just put the LO in the stroller & go. Then I think, it's too windy & what if a branch falls off a tree on us while we are walking. Guess I'll take the truck! I wonder if Men think like this, I bet not.

    ILovemyPaulie

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 3:25 PM on Mar. 6, 2013

  • Ballad, I started to read that and I got anxious. No Joke! :/

    I do this all the time and it prevents me from living life! So I started to push myself to do stuff because the what ifs don't ever happen when I actually do what I am afraid of!
    CaliBlondeGirl

    Answer by CaliBlondeGirl at 3:27 PM on Mar. 6, 2013

  • I have done that, but I don't let it stop me from my plans. I feel like I have played it out in my head & I'm prepared & know how I would handle any given situation. I can understand in today's world being worried about the bad guys out there, but if we are aware of our surroundings, & prepared w/ an exit strategy, we should not have to live our lives in fear. If we do, THEY win. KWIM? So take that baby for a walk. If you feel it's necessary, then take some self-defense classes at the Y or something. But don't stay inside b/c of the 'what ifs"  *Hugs*

    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 3:59 PM on Mar. 6, 2013

  • You will waste your life worrying about "what if".
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 4:14 PM on Mar. 6, 2013

  • I daydream but I run the story, the story doesn't run me lol. Well sometimes it does.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 4:29 PM on Mar. 6, 2013

  • i have wasted it worrying anne
    staciandababy

    Comment by staciandababy (original poster) at 4:52 PM on Mar. 6, 2013

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