my husband is a faithful hard-working man. he comes home after work, watches tv, goes to bed. weekends he spends mainly with our son or playing videogames or working on the motorcycles. but he never initiates spending time with me. i have brought it up many times but it just doesn't seem to be any type of priority. I had to harass him for 2 weeks to decide what he wanted to do next Saturday with me so we could spend time together. well, he came up with something i would like but he included the kids...i was hoping for alone time but oh well.
i have flat out asked him why the hell he puts me as priority ZERO and he says if that were true he wouldn't work hard & come home every night.
so is that really what my life is with him? i have to be content with him simply coming home? i want/need a husband to be my best friend but apparently he has other ideas.
does anybody else have a husband like this? what do you think this behavior means?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:20 AM on Mar. 9, 2013 in Relationships
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