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It's my BF's son. He's given me a run for my $$ so far. BF & I dated a year before moving in together. After that fact his ex dropped his son off on our doorstep and ran off to the UP to live. We both gave up our small homes to get this big home for both our 18 yr olds. Mine is a neat freak. His is a pig. My rule has always been NO girlfriends sleep overs. He says she's not his girlfriend. Well I know they have sex. So I don't see the difference. I don't want them shacking up in my house I didn't allow it for any of my kids I don't want to allow it with his son. So when they came down this morning I looked at him he says what? I said not cool girlfriends don't spend the night! He says she's not my girlfriend... I said girls don't spend the night. I wanted to say Fuck buddy's don't spend the night but didn't. MY house my rules. He glared at me as my BF stood in the door way not sure what he should say but didn't say anything to back me up on this either. Until she left. I glared at him with my coffee cup in hand and went back to living room to see what he would do. His son said. why isn't it ok? just cuz she says so? I'm 18 I can have a friend stay if I want. We are NOT running a flop house or a Motel 6 where he can have comfortable sex with is fuck buddy!! All he had to say is. If you want your girl friend to stay stay at her house and see what her parents think... or My house my rules. He just said. It's not right just don't do it. I could care less they are boinking bum's but I don't want them having all nighter sexathons in my house. They are both 18 pull their $ and get a hotel room or throw a blanket in the back of her blazer and do the dirty there! So guess my thing is. When he kept asking why... Is it ok to say to an 18 yr who is still in HS (although failing and won't graduate on time) to say sorry my house my rules that's all you need to know.
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