I just feel so awful right now. I just got engaged and told my mom she was not excited for me and acted like she didn't care at all no congratulations or anything, just "thats nice" she says I am wearing a $4000 ring that is huge and gorgeous I had to ask her 3 freakin times to look at it! oh that's nice she says and then we get home and my almost sister in law comes over, we tell her she is like yeah that's nice and asks me if I picked it out, and says about time with no excitement for us. I dont know why I care what they think but I d,o I keep looking at 3 sons and almost husband we have been together for 8 years and I have been faithful to him and a great mother, and no one really cares about us we are not good enough to hang out for the day they don't offer to baby sit or spend time with our boys and the boys can see that, and get really upset when they don't come over when they plan to and we find out they decided to spend time with someone else and they meaning my mans sister and mom and my mom which are all the family that we have combined dont ever have anything to say to us but talk about other people and complain about their financial troubles and we let them borrow money which we try to avoid but let them when it will get them to stop calling us asking for it, they get so mad at us when we say no we cant let you borrow money and try to tell them why, they dont want to hear it, yet we listen to them complain why they need to borrow our money. I just will never understand why we are not good enough for them unless they want to borrow money and will not even try to spend time with us like the do with their other friends and family. I cant help but doubt this marriage already and wonder what kind of family am I marrying into?Answer Question
Answer by QuinnMae at 2:13 PM on Mar. 10, 2013
Answer by staciandababy at 2:20 PM on Mar. 10, 2013
Ok, let me get this right. Been together(not married) 8 years. Have 3 kids together. Finally getting married. Flaunting a $4000 ring at family. That think you are already rich, because they keep asking you for money. You will not let them borrow any of. Did I get that right?
I understand why they are not happy for you. You are basicly already married. 8 years 3 kids.
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