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why do we let men hurt us?

why is it so hard for women to give up the man that is literaly taking there life by mental,emotionel,pysical,and verble abuse?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:05 AM on Feb. 16, 2009 in Relationships

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  • b/c we dont think there is anything better out there. and nothing can top the pain that we are already in, so whats the use in even trying b/c we have no support or we are too afraid. that, or we really just dont know what to do and we are so used to it b/c its an on and off thing that doesnt happen everyday. and maybe we push there buttons and believe the things they say is true. even though deep down its not but we are in denial.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:11 AM on Feb. 16, 2009

  • some women just love their man so much that they cant leave and they hope he gets better
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:12 AM on Feb. 16, 2009

  • Battered women's syndrome: http://www.mamashealth.com/abuse/bwomensyndrome.asp. If you are a victim, call the National Domestic Violence Helpline 1-800-799-SAFE. If you can't do it for yourself, do it for your kids. Girls who see Mom battered often marry batterers. Boys who see a battered Mom may learn to batter the women in their lives. It may be hard but you CAN break the cycle.
    Trixiebelle2

    Answer by Trixiebelle2 at 3:14 AM on Feb. 16, 2009

  • its very hard for me to understand that!! GOD BLESS THOSE WOMEN!!!
    tuty2403

    Answer by tuty2403 at 3:14 AM on Feb. 16, 2009

  • because we have let society convince us that we need a man in our lives.they can make us miserable but hey,as long as you have one.it does'nt help that we women have made up much more cleverer excuses for them than they could ever dream up themselves.if you stay stay with a man that has abused you in any way then you probarbly think you deserve it,and only you know why you think so low of yourself.
    2ndtimemom605

    Answer by 2ndtimemom605 at 3:15 AM on Feb. 16, 2009

  • geesh...this is a deep question for such a little space, but all PP are right.When we are with a man who abuses us, we get to a point where we question every little thing we do/say/think even our own sanity.its a vicious circle that takes alot of strentgh and courage to break, but its possible, I am proof of that.:o)as for love...its not loving them so much that makes us stay, its not loving ourselves enough to go.
    Bearsjen

    Answer by Bearsjen at 3:21 AM on Feb. 16, 2009

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