when do we parents get our lifes back. i need to vent here . i have been raising kids and taking care of things since i was 10 years old . im now 58. my my was an alcholic and she died of it. i took care of my brother and sister. then at 24 got married and 4 beautiful children . one passed a way when she was 5. found out she was terminally ill when i was 8 months pregnant.
my husband was a way a lot driving trucks so i practically raised our three kids a lone. we were married 31 years before he passed a way.
my youngest daughter was a teen mom who finished high school and recieved two scalorships. held her job for three
went to community college. then got pregant again. was out of work for a year and a half. has two kids now and still lives with me her mom me. dads aren't in the picture. has a job now and works odd hours. she just had dental surgery and had to take a week off. works part time. says she can't get off those days i would be gone. afraid sh would lose her job. shes only been there 4 months. my daughter is 22
have a chance to go to a concert and i'll be gone three days. we got into one h_l of and arguement. she telling its not the right time , that i was being selfish , so on and so on. the person i was lady i was going with she ws driving has booked two hotels and making plans on what sightseeing. i have to call her now and tell her i can't go because my daughter doesn't have a babysitter. im her primary and only one. sometimes i feel like giving up and say you win. i feel defeated. don't know what to do.
looking for babysitters for grandsons but its so hard finding the right one.
Answer by girlwithC at 5:54 AM on Mar. 12, 2013
Answer by girlwithC at 6:00 AM on Mar. 12, 2013
OK. She is the one being selfish. You need to inform her she is a grown up now. And you can do what ever you want, when you want. In form her she needs to find a different sitter for her play time. You need to get it in your head that you are not responsible for babysitting and raising her kids. If I were you I would tell her to start finding somewhere else to live.
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