I am a regular going Anonymous
I had a job that I held down for four years about ten years ago. At that time I was married. My boss hit on me and constantly made harrassing remarks, saying that he loved me, but knew that nothing could ever come of it. I was naive and stupid and had never been in that situation before. I fell for it, every ounce of it. Even though he told me he had done this multiple times before. I was having some marital problems at the time, so I was looking for someone to show me that attention. So I broke up my marriage of many years to hopefully follow through with the relationship he had hinted to. When I told him, he instantly started up with me. Saying he loved me, he wanted to be with me. This lasted for about a month or so and then he was done with me. At that time, I was single and this was the only job I had. I shut off all my feelings to keep my job and stay there. I lived that way for four years. That was 9 years ago. Since that time I have remarried, but now have this very bad hatred for this man. That and I cannot keep a job. Every time my male boss looks at me, I feel he's going to start trying to start a relationship or wanting to. It scares me and I wind up quitting. I guess I am afraid to committ. I know it's because of the past. What do you think I should do about it? Do I let it go, do I confront this guy for ruining how I feel about myself? What do you suggest?
Asked by Anonymous at 10:50 PM on Mar. 12, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 11:01 PM on Mar. 12, 2013
Answer by Dardenella at 11:07 PM on Mar. 12, 2013
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