Is it it ever okay for your boyfriend/husband to keep in touch with their ex? Lets say no kids involved.
My boyfriends brother has a wife he was with for 15 years now.
And today, he hung out with an ex he was with for 5 years before her.
My boyfriend has an ex he was with for 9 1/2 years. When I asked him if he thought that was okay to keep in touch with an ex, I didn't really get a response from him. I personally, do not think its okay. An ex is an ex, can't over tha person? Then stay single, until you can boost your self-esteem to be able to move on. I understand that they may have been best friends, but that's what your new girlfriend/wife is for. Yeah, we may not experience anything they've experienced , but there's nothing wrong with new experiences and memories. You live and you move on.
I don't know. Maybe I'm just insecure? They had a 'past'. So as long as they keep talking, that past is going to keep getting brought up! I don't think that's fair for the new relationship.
What do you ladies think!?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:48 PM on Mar. 13, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by feralxat at 11:53 PM on Mar. 13, 2013
Answer by virginiamama71 at 11:56 PM on Mar. 13, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 12:04 AM on Mar. 14, 2013
Answer by Ballad at 12:10 AM on Mar. 14, 2013
Answer by okmanders at 12:41 AM on Mar. 14, 2013
OK- a lot of yall have said be friends with/ work with.. I understand being civil. I am not saying at a social event "give them the cold shoulder".
But hang out with? Say, go to dinner with?
Why, 20 years after a breakup, are you still hanging out with an old love?
Answer by feralxat at 12:49 AM on Mar. 14, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 1:26 AM on Mar. 14, 2013