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How upset would you be if the man you were dating for many years still had his relationship status set to single


And you tell him to change it and he never does? It hurts me should it?
What does it tell me about him? A lot? Or nothing?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:00 PM on Mar. 14, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (22)
  • you mean on a social networking site? i probably wouldnt care. but if he's telling people that he's single in real life, yeah that would obviously be a problem.

    Answer by tnm786 at 2:02 PM on Mar. 14, 2013

  • If I cared what Facebook said, very upset. Since I don't, it wouldn't bother me at all.

    Answer by hootie826 at 2:03 PM on Mar. 14, 2013

  • Maybe he values his privacy and doesn't think "in a relationship" or "it's complicated" is anyone's business.

    Answer by SWasson at 2:07 PM on Mar. 14, 2013

  • I would wonder why he did it
    Maybe it was by accident
    But if he spends lots of time on there...I would think he was not that into me

    Answer by fiatpax at 2:08 PM on Mar. 14, 2013

  • you're just dating him
    not engaged, living together or anything?
    just dating- for years?

    Answer by feralxat at 2:11 PM on Mar. 14, 2013

  • Just dating. For many years. Maybe he has never felt committed to you. So he never changed it.


    Answer by louise2 at 2:15 PM on Mar. 14, 2013

  • Just dating, no big deal

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 2:20 PM on Mar. 14, 2013

  • I don't think I would care. For all intents and purposes he is single,

    Answer by Izsarejman at 2:34 PM on Mar. 14, 2013

  • How does he treat you otherwise? Is this the only problem, or does his Facebook status nag at you because you don't feel like the man is committed to you?

    Answer by Ballad at 2:37 PM on Mar. 14, 2013

  • Technically you are single until you are married legally. So he is right.

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 2:41 PM on Mar. 14, 2013

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