my problem is i cought my husband going to a strip clubs, and i knew that he met a young stripper 21 yrs old.... he is 43.and i am 30 yrs old... one day i saw messages on his phone , he and her were texting each others,not sexual stuff. but nice way of talking and flirting. for example he wrote her( i am in a another strip club having a drink with russian girl but its not the same like with u ).....the next day i went to check on his face book and i found that he is planning a surprise for her birthday.i encounter him and i made a big fight ,he told me they are just friends and he is helping her , i didnt believe him , so he left the house 3 weeks. he only came home on the weekends.and he stopped going to stripp clubs while he was out of the house. but they stayed talking to each others about my husband problem in his house which is that i dont accept a stripper to be a friend of his.
after all i said u have to come home and unfriend her from ur life. actually he did and i made sure coz i dont trust any word he says , he came back home (after i threaten him that i want a divorce) he hit me like crazy and he closed the doors, so i dont leave )... any ways, he told her infront of me in a message that its not going to work bla bla bla,....
oh by the way he got her a stripper male as a surprise on her birthday and later on he told me that it was disgusting how stripper touched her.he also told me once that she is beautiful girl but he doesnt have any ssexual attention for her,,,,(trying to convince my self and believe him)..
i didnt leave him in the first place coz i have kids,, all my friends told me that life has to go on, he is home and u r happy together , and u won him back... but i feel its not enough he hurt me a lot... i cant get over it ... i just cant and i keep every thing hidden in my heart.....
sorrry english is my second language,and i am writing while i am crying. so i know am all over the place sorry.
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