I know every one has their ups and downs. Me and SO decided we were going to get married this coming summer, and I am excited but we argue about the smallest things but at the end of the day its all good... Should I do it:( :-) mixed feelings...
Asked by Anonymous at 10:59 AM on Feb. 16, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:14 AM on Feb. 16, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:18 AM on Feb. 16, 2009
Answer by gypsymama532 at 11:26 AM on Feb. 16, 2009
I married in spite of problems prior. Largely in part because I became pregnant. It was a horrible first 3 years, I thought what the hell did I do? Marring for a child is never a good thing. What may be a mole hill in the irritant arena, becomes a huge mountain after marriage. Marriage doesn't ever "fix" anything. With that said, you seem to have good conflict resolution skills. That is the key. If you both are willing to move forward together, honoring, respecting and adoring each other, in spite of arguments and tribulations that come along, as long as you can resolve them in love, respect and honor. Fights happen, it's if you both fight fair and can resolve your issues in the end that counts. My husband and I have learned through great trial and error how to resolve conflicts, fight fair, try to see the others point and respect and honor each other....it has worked wonders!
Answer by blessed5x at 11:48 AM on Feb. 16, 2009
Answer by rgie_wermager at 1:28 PM on Feb. 16, 2009