Me and my SO lived 1300 miles apart for about 3 years and every holiday that I didnt spend with him or birthday or whatever he was pissed off, well I moved here in Sept 07 and last year was our first Valentines day together now again the ones before were a HUGE deal and he was mad cause he wanted to be with me on v-day, so last year he totally ditched me and had to go do something else it was work related but it was bad timing and it was the fact he never said hey did you have plans or want to do something cause I gotta do this, anyway so he did come home with a card and a movie and flowers which was nice but he was a ass when he got here and I had done the whole candles and rose petals on th ebed thing and he just went upstairs without me and wiped the petals over to my side of the bed and went to sleep so that was how wonderful our first v-day was together. Sooooo this year he never even acknowlaged it I didnt get a CONTAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:51 AM on Feb. 16, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Tawanda74 at 12:22 PM on Feb. 16, 2009
I mean no disrespect, but I see the signs. He is abusing you. It is emotional abuse. Get out. You deserve better than that. That isn't love. I thought my first husband loved me, he treated me like that before we got married, once married the physical abuse started.......divorced from him now, though we have a daughter together, his abuse will ALWAYS be there. He still tries to control me, verbally abuses me, uses our daughter as a pawn of revenge.......anyway. He acted the same way as yours is acting. He also cheated on me several times throughout our marriage! That IS NOT LOVE! Run my dear, as fast as you can! It doesn't get any better and they never change. I am SO SORRY for you! Please have respect and honor for yourself more than to allow ANY man to treat you like this or talk to you like this! It is abuse and it will ONLY get worse!
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My hubby and his friends always do good when it comes to V-day...mostly because they made up their own Valentines day. It is a month after Valentine's day so March 14th and it's called Steak and a blow job day! Obviously they get a steak and a bj if anyone couldn't catch on by the day's name! So tell your man next year you expect a good day and a month later if he does what he's supposed to you will return the favor to him!
Answer by Navymama at 2:34 PM on Feb. 16, 2009