Ive been dating someone for 1.5 years, i have a son from a previous marriage. we have just been not getting along lately. we are both 25, he acts immature at times. i think in my eyes he's too hard on my son. he says i just baby him. Im close with his family, we hang out with them usually at least once a week. i thought they accepted me and my son as their own family. but i help throw a 50th bday party for his dad a week or so ago. i helped plan the date, time, location, food, decorations etc. bc i thought i'm part of the family thats the least i can do. his sister had come up to me at one point in the night and said she wanted a family pic one w- me one w-o. i said ok. later, she asked me to come take the pic of them 4 then walked away. my bf didn't say anything. i was very hurt. bc of course i thot i was family..guessed wrong. anyways..no one seems to think i have a right to be upset, i'm overreacting etc. Would you be upset?Answer Question
Answer by Ballad at 2:49 PM on Mar. 19, 2013
Answer by tnm786 at 2:49 PM on Mar. 19, 2013
Red flags went up when you said that he is too hard on your son & that he thinks you baby him. It's obvious from his sisters actions, and his lack of them, that they aren't so sure it will last either & that's why they want a pic that's free of you being in it. Sorry to say, but I think 1 1/2 years of your young life is enough to spend with someone who's critical of your parenting & trying to go against how you feel you need to parent your child. Cut your losses & look out for that little boy. Sorry. But that's what I'd tell my own kids in the same situation. GL!
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