. . . Had an extra ticket to a basketball game through his brother and started asking other people to go instead of you? And then what if. He had already promised to watch your kids the day of the game before he knew about it so you could go to a doc appt you made 2 weeks ago, then turns around and asks you if someone else can watch the kids?
Now granted, everyones situation is different. He works 2 jobs, I take care of the kids all day and work when he isn't working. So we never see each other. I figured if he was going to take the day off work to go to a game, why not invite your wife who never sees you that's just sitting at home.. . . ? Im hurt that he automatically looked past me, and then cancellc his promise and makes me find so eone to watch our kids the day before my appt.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:20 PM on Mar. 20, 2013 in Relationships
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Answer by Newmom1993 at 3:53 PM on Mar. 20, 2013
You don't like sports so it's logical that he'd want to take someone who would appreciate going. Yes, unless your kids are infants or toddlers, he should've considered them first. While it is an inconvenience, if an unexpected opportunity like this dropped in my husb's lap on the same day as my Dr. appt, I would understand & try to make other arrangements for a sitter. As for together time for the 2 of you, maybe you can make a date with him in the near future. The man works 2 jobs, so please don't make him feel guilty for having a little fun on his down time.
Answer by mrsmom110 at 4:00 PM on Mar. 20, 2013
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