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So I've been with this guy for about 8 months. We have not spoken in 5 days over a very petty argument. We haven't officially broken up yet, but I feel like it's time.
All he does is talk about his "precious cats." It's kind of weird. Plus they poop in hidden spots, piss in his bed, and hide in the furniture. They're not cute & I don't wanna go over to his house.
I feel like he's the whiny girlfriend & I'm the a-hole boyfriend in this relationship. He's pretty needy and wants physical attention all the time. Not so much sex, but hand-holding, cuddling, etc. ALL the time. I'm not like that.
Everything he says sounds like criticism. He's constantly analyzing EVERYTHING and it sounds like he's criticizing everything all the time. It's so annoying. Not everything needs to be discussed & analyzed in depth.
His eating habits are disgusting. He puts extra salt on EVERYTHING. He talks about working out & losing weight, but he never wants to do it with me. He't not fat, but he is kind of out of shape. I'm not perfect, but I want someone to be active with me.
I'm not sure if I was just "blinded by love" at first and did not notice these things before. But now there's not anything desirable about him at all. I'm just having a hard time decided what to do. My DS adores him & he is a really good, responsible guy. I don't know if I should give up or work it out. We've been trying & trying to work it out, but it seems like we're failing. We've talked about our issues and we have not repaired anything. What would you do?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:58 PM on Mar. 22, 2013 in Relationships
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