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Is my husband cheating?

I have seen a few "strange" texts on my husbands phone over 5 years and have discovered they are escort services. He claims he has called but could never go through with it. Of course it is my fault due to lack of intimacy. I'm called out as being insecure and crzy. What's a wife to do?

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Gidgerella

Asked by Gidgerella at 9:34 PM on Mar. 23, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (28)
  • Find a divorce lawyer. I would suggest consulting with the best ones in your area.
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 9:37 PM on Mar. 23, 2013

  • If it walks like a duck.. and clucks like a duck... it's a duck!!
    Crafty26

    Answer by Crafty26 at 9:38 PM on Mar. 23, 2013

  • The wheels on the bus go round and round. Round and round. Round and round.
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 9:39 PM on Mar. 23, 2013

  • Of course it is my fault...

    And that's bullshit... just b/c he's a dirtbag it's NOT your fault
    Crafty26

    Answer by Crafty26 at 9:39 PM on Mar. 23, 2013

  • What do the texts say?
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 9:41 PM on Mar. 23, 2013

  • These numbers are texting him saying they are in town for the evening. Looking at phone records he hasn't responded back. But how the heck did they get his number? Maybe he is telling the truth. I'm so pissed that I'm sinking to this level of checking phone records.. Really?? I'm 40 and fabulous with 2 beautiful baby girls. Thanks for caring.
    Gidgerella

    Comment by Gidgerella (original poster) at 9:46 PM on Mar. 23, 2013

  • Any time your DH says it is your fault he is cheating or potentialy going to cheat.  It is not.  

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 9:48 PM on Mar. 23, 2013

  • Suggest marriage counseling. He could be cheating but he could not. I would need a lot more information to form an opinion.
    tyfry7496

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 9:53 PM on Mar. 23, 2013

  • We've never been to counseling. Can't see how it would ever bring back my trust or forgiveness. We've been together for 15 yrs. I cannot believe I'm turning into the bitter, man hating cliche!
    Gidgerella

    Comment by Gidgerella (original poster) at 10:02 PM on Mar. 23, 2013

  • On a lighter note, I contacted the escort and invited her over. Wanted him to answer the door. Lol I decided to be mature and cancel her and showed him the texts instead for the initial confrontation.
    Gidgerella

    Comment by Gidgerella (original poster) at 10:04 PM on Mar. 23, 2013

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