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Should i tell him or wait?

hey ladies, so i think i may be pregnant, i've been having the symptoms but im not postitve yet my period itsn't due till next sunday,.. should i tell my husband i think i may be pregnant or just wait =? when we talked about having another child two months ago he said he doesnt want another child for a while.. so im nervous and idk what to do

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:02 PM on Mar. 24, 2013 in Pregnancy

Answers (10)
  • Just wait. It would be VERY rare for true pregnancy side effects to start this early.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 5:03 PM on Mar. 24, 2013

  • Wait & take a pregnancy test first before saying anything.

    Answer by 3libras at 5:05 PM on Mar. 24, 2013

  • Wait. I was (desperately) hoping to be preggo this cycle because a test on April fools day would be hilarious

    Answer by hibbingmom at 5:09 PM on Mar. 24, 2013

  • I would take a test

    Answer by txnmomof4 at 5:10 PM on Mar. 24, 2013

  • Wait till after you test and can know for sure.

    Answer by kmath at 5:11 PM on Mar. 24, 2013

  • wait till you know

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 5:14 PM on Mar. 24, 2013

  • I would wait especially since he doesn't want another baby now why start unnecessary fighting in case you aren't actually pregnant.

    Answer by amandajoy21 at 5:15 PM on Mar. 24, 2013

  • Why cause a possible blow up between you when you do not even know you have a cause?

    Answer by Dardenella at 5:29 PM on Mar. 24, 2013

  • he does not want one for a while
    you do not know for sure
    but you are thinking of telling him

    ...wait until you know

    Answer by fiatpax at 7:06 PM on Mar. 24, 2013

  • Don't borrow trouble. Wait till you confirm your pregnancy, if there is one. Hopefully, till you are both on the same page about having another baby or not, you're taking precautions.

    Answer by Ballad at 9:47 PM on Mar. 24, 2013

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