Portuguese or not, yelling and cursing and manhandling won't be best for the kids. End of story. Personally, I'd give it to your husband straight. He has one chance to get help and get his poop in a group, or he's gone and you'll do the job yourself. Follow your instincts. You know what he's doing isn't helping the boys who need you.
at 12:17 AM on Mar. 25, 2013