I'm going through a serious insecurity phase. It's been like this for some months now.
I'm 21, he's 31. We been together for almost 2 years. In the beginning, before we got too serious, I caught him talking to his ex a few times. That made me insecure. Then seeing what she looks like, made me even more insecure.
All I talk complain about to him is my body. Then I start saying stuff like, "you want your ex back, her body's nicer, you wish my hips were wide like hers". It's so immature of me. In the back of my mind, I'm always thinking maybe he wishes my body was like hers, he misses her. What if they start talking again. All this stuff running through my mind.! Then I go on to think how long they been together, the fun times they had. He probably had more fun with her etc. and to top or off, she left him, and he begged for her back.
It's like, a woman that's not even in our lives is destroying us because of me!! This is not healthy at all. This has got to stop. Or it's going to drive me crazy! Anyone want to try putting some sense into my head?!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 1:47 PM on Mar. 25, 2013 in Relationships
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NannyB.... Awesome advice as usual!
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